Culture is what's around you daily. I've learned most people have no idea how to do things the right way, because they've never seen it done the right way. The modern world is especially disconnected from reality, and excellence. 

Most influence is virtual, not real. 

Most influence is scripted, not real. 

Most influencers are bots, not real. 

How can you know what is right and good when the incentive structure has been perverted? Rule 34 applies to success. 

As a result, most leaders are bad leaders. They believe good leadership is something they've seen in a movie, because that's where they've been inspired, not in real life. It's time to fix this.